
Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...

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My H has arranged to meet this girl he met online a few weeks ago. I know the time and place but I'm having a hard time deciding whether to go there and catch him in the act or to go there to see if he will even show up or to just wait to see what happens next. My thoughts are that if he does not meet the girl, then there's a chance to make it work, if he does meet the girl then it's TOAST. I'm also feeling that I should just let it go and deal with what happens next. What do you think?
Update: This incident happened a couple of days ago and I have decided to see if he would show up. Unfortunately, he was there. He must have seen me as I saw him on talking on the phone behind a column. Of course, he rambled something about faxing something but I just shook my head and said it's over. There was a couple of girls sitting at the table and one of them fit the description. I am so disappointed that he went through with it but maybe it's not meant to be. Now I need help on how to move forward. I would appreciate any suggestions on how to prepare for the divorce. Is it mandatory that we have to be separated first or can I just file for a divorce.
Update: This incident happened a couple of days ago and I have decided to see if he would show up. Unfortunately, he was there. He must have seen me as I saw him on talking on the phone behind a column. Of course, he rambled something about faxing something but I just shook my head and said it's over. There was a couple of girls sitting at the table and one of them fit the description. I am so disappointed that he went through with it but maybe it's not meant to be. Now I need help on how to move forward. I would appreciate any suggestions on how to prepare for the divorce. Is it mandatory that we have to be separated first or can I just file for a divorce.
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I agree that once they do it once it would be easier to do it again. As Dr Phil always says, the best predictor of future behavior is past behavior so you are probably smart to move toward divorce. I wish you the best and I hate that we find ourselves here looking for help