
Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
I think that the fact that he got caught, rather than confessing, is not as good a sign as it would be if he had realized on his own that the affair was a bad thing.
Also, people have found that what they discovered was the tip of the iceberg.
How do you know he's ended it? Does he work with her? If not you could easily watch in type up a firm e-mail saying he's chosing you instead of her and that the relationship is OVER. Or sit next to him when he calls. If he fights you on this tell him that for your sanity you need to KNOW it's over by being there. If he claims it's an invasion of his privacy tell him that he's forfitted it since he cheated. Then... marriage counseling!!!!! Good luck