
Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...

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I swear now that I have been disintegrated by my wife's affair, that I can almost look at other guys and tell by some sign in their eyes they've been screwed over also. It's almost like a scarlet letter, I SWEAR I can just look at a guy (being a guy that was cheated on) and tell that other dude has gone through the same pain, it's like an invisible scar that only members of the "screwed over" club recognize. Do you think I'm crazy or on some bipolar swing where I think I'm god and perceive more than I am???? Do we (the cheatees) carry a mark of infidelity that we've been pharked over by someone?
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I think you are onto something.
something is wrong. My mother died, last year, a month before my husband of 46 years told me about his affair- 15 yrs ago. Quite a few say oh, I'm so sorry, it is so difficult to loose a mother, especially if your were close to her. I usually let it go at that, but a few clients that I'm really close to, I tell.
I do get a lot of sympathy and it helps. me. I am still very angry for him telling me now, 15 yrs later, married 46 years.
I've only told one friend and he says he has only told one friend. I can see a difference in how he acts around his other friends especially when I am around.
I put a big distance between my self and my parents and sister during the summer, I found out June 8, the day school was out. I stopped going by to see them. They called all the time but I just couldn't deal with their issues and my own. Because of my age 46, my mom just assumed I was going through the change (she told my daughter) so she has left me alone recently.
Part of me doesn't want to be around anyone because when they ask how my H is, or how he likes his new job (he started in 5 days before d-day) I want to tell the TRUTH. He's a cheating, selfish Bast..d that destroyed his family.
I wonder what your parents are thinking as they look down on us. His reply was- you just want to make me look bad in everyones' eyes, living and dead! He came from such a good close Christian family. I'm sure they would be heartbroken too.
that my close friends think I have changed....how can you not. I've been changed by this and cannot go back to the way or person I was. Only one thing to do though, decide which way you want to go, forward or get eaten alive by the past. Every day I fight the battle..and win most of them. Good luck and keep fighting.