How do you get past the fact that your H or W said "I love you," "I miss you" and "I wish I could be with you." to the OW/OM? It just seems so unbearable to me and I don't know if I can get over that part. Sometimes I think he really just said those things because he was caught up in the affair- the excitement and drama. I don't doubt he has some feelings for the OW, but real love? I just don't know anymore. I'm torn with that he is here with me and remorseful about what he has done. We are doing a lot of talking mostly me starting it, but he is responsive when we talk. And I guess if he really felt that he loved her he would have chosen her, but still I have my doubts.
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