My husband just left today. It has been less than 2 weeks since meeting the new girl and he already decided to leave rather than work things out. I know its for the better, but I do not think I can finiancilly afford it. I posted my scenerio in another post, so I am not going to re-write it, but since then, my husband still talks to to the other women and thinks everything is about the money. He wouldn't leave until he knew he would get his things. Then he tried to take our laptop and other possessions and I called the police. They basically said they can not stop him from taking whatever he wants. It has been a long day, but I think I am coming to the senses that it will be really difficult without him. We depended on his parents to pay our rent and his part-time job to pay the bills. He was finishing his 9th year of an undergraduate degree and I decided to enroll in a 3 year graduate program in school psych. (half is 1.5 years of unpaid internship). Now that he is leaving, his parents are not going to pay the rent and I am the one who has to either pick up a full time job and work 80 hours a week and barely get by or quit the program that I worked so hard to get into (4.0 graduate gpa). Not to mention me 11,000 credit card bill from our wedding that has not been paid off and is in my name only!! I just do not think it is fair that me and our daughter will have to face that because he is in his 9th year of undergraduate school and can only word part-time!!! But I am thinking its reality. When they said he can take whatever he wants for the time being, I knew I was screwed and will be in the future. I know I am better without him, but I do not think I can get by and go on knowing he can mess around and party while I can't pay the bills and could possible face eviction by the start of the following month.
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