
Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
CAN ANYTHING BE DONE ABOUT THESE DATING WEBSITES

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I was wondering can anything be done about websites that promote promiscuous unprotected sex like OBC, AFF and others. It's a common thread that married men and women go to these websites. Many families are being destroyed as well as lives because of these sites. OBC promotes promisuous sex with ANYBODY and that's dangerous. Thats a breeding ground for aids and every std out there.
In scanning the AFF site (looking for my husbands' pic) I saw alot of "married" men suggesting that the party interested in them understand that their wives can't know about the sexual encounter and that they value family. In my mind I said "WHAT THE"! These sites to me are dangerous in that they promote the potential to breakup families and destroy peoples lives.
In scanning the AFF site (looking for my husbands' pic) I saw alot of "married" men suggesting that the party interested in them understand that their wives can't know about the sexual encounter and that they value family. In my mind I said "WHAT THE"! These sites to me are dangerous in that they promote the potential to breakup families and destroy peoples lives.
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Cheating has been around for centuries. As long as, well, marriage. before there was websites, there were brothels. Focus the blame where it belongs. On your husband.
I will bash whatever website I want. It's a moral issue at stake and in this day and time it seems that mankinds morals are going in the toilet faster and faster with every decade. God is definitely not pleased. I'm not sure what you are calling an alternative lifestyle and you are welcomed to whatever lifestyle you want but for me adultery is not an alternative lifestyle it is immorality and not acceptable in any fashion.
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The OBC website is "ONLINEBOOTYCALL.COM" and that's just what it's for. It doesn't boast about building relationship, it's strictly for one night stands or casual sex partners or swingers or whatever. There's another site called "blackpeoplemeet.com" that boasts the same sexual scenario. There's a site if your are into people who deficate or defacate or urinate on each other and so on and so on. I literally got sick to my stomach seeing just how far these sites will go and I can see how it can be a disease for some people.
Heartbroken is right to say we have a choice, and so do these people who make these sites and peddle this insanity to people. No wonder people lose their minds to porno and things of this nature. These sites are so self demeaning and humilating (Ok, maybe this is just my opinion, but I'm sticking with it.). I think these sex vendors need to be brought into subjection and responsibility some kind of way. I equate these sites to drug pushers because what the person is left with that ventures into these sites is a life that is on a downward spiral mentally, physically, emotionally and financially.
Just look or listen to some of the people who are on here. Some of them are so depleted emotionally because of their losses due to infidelity, porno, drugs or whatever that they are on the brink of insanity. They are lonely , depressed, ready to kill themselves and such. I really feel for them and pray every day for God to show them love and help them, but it's this addiction or disease of sites like this that help fuel the fire.
I know I sound like I'm ranting to some, but there has to be something people can do to these sites. Nave's reply hints at hope which makes me feel a little better.
Byathread, I started to tell myself in the beginning that I neglected my husband and that's why he cheated, but you know what? I didn't neglect him. He was doing this before we got married, the day we got married, and since we've been married. When I asked him what is the draw for him, he doesn't know. He can't put it into words other than to say "sex", just "sex". He says he started going to these sites because he had a relationship that ended badly and he was young when he did it. Now 5 or 6 years or more down the line he doesn't know how to stop, or found out after 1 year into his experience with these people he was hooked to something he couldn't get away from. Now he's getting older and that's all he's spent his money and time on. Now really building relationships , hiding this dark dirty secret, and shamed of himself that he is slave to his desire to continue to do it. It's a really vicious circle.
Would be kinda nice if you could take the keyboard and break his damn fingers though. :)