Over the past two days, I have been speaking at length to the OW's boyfriend. I was AWESOME I now have a real, true ally in all of this. It was the best and smartest thing I have done to date. We were able to connect stories and unveil lie after lie. It was great. I finally see things for what they really are! We were both able to give each other so much information that we were not aware of. He is sending me copies of e-mails that my darling hubby sent to her, including pictures of himself in nothing but a towel! I was able to confirm how much she has been lying to him about how often and when they were talking. I have copies of cell phone bills that I will gladly pass on to him. I feel like Neo in the Matrix when he finally sees the numbers flowing everywhere. I finally see through every manipulation/spin/sales tactic that he has used on me. I feel like I'm wearing a coat of armor now. (sorry, I'm being a little dramatic.) Has anyone else ever had any similar experiences? I highly recommed this, especially if you are looking for ammunition to help you end it with your lying, cheating Sig. O. :0)
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