My wife of 13 years cheated on me with a coworker. The A lasted 2 weeks and she says there was no sex. He was half her age and I think she has some pretty extreme self esteem issues that were not known to me at the time. She initially lied and the did not tell me the whole truth for two weeks after the D-day. I believe we love each other and can work through. I think we are getting to a good point in our understanding of why this happened. I can accept/forgive what I know/think happened. What is harder is to know how I can trust her after all the lies before and after the A. I do believe she is being as honest now as she can be and is making a sincere effort. Does anyone have any experience with building back trust that would be helpful? Thanks
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