My former fiance and I are having an extremely difficult time dealing with this situation right now. I was the one who cheated. I have not seen him since it happened, almost two weeks. He does not know yet if he can forgive me... he doesn't know what to think. He says he is still sorting everything out in his head and that only time and space will help to clarify things. He said to me last night that as much as he misses me, he can't picture kissing me or being physical with me... at least not at this time. He doesn't know how he'll find the desire again. My question is for those who have been through this before... Did you feel like you couldn't be physical with your partner again? Did you find that desire again? Is this normal? How long does it take to get the desire after it's been lost? I'm clinging to whatever hope I can. Thank you.
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