
Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
MissSan-thanks for your support. it is a very hard situation to be in but i know that in the end i will be okay.
Can't imagine what you're going thru and I hope you get some answers.
My dad was married to Cindy when he made me. My mom was married to Jerry. Both my parents are lying cheating jerks. I feel so loved.
Having said that, my dad stayed married to Cindy. I am only going to be honest here: Cindy is a mess, and has been for years. She tries to be nice to me, but it is difficult considering my Mother is the person who fucked her husband. I truly am sick over what they did. Every once in a while, she makes snide remarks. I am an adult now- she doesn't get away with them the way she did when I was little and she KNOWS it. Its not my damn fault. But still to this day, all I see in her eyes is pain when she sees me. Its like a constant reminder in her face. I am SURE it does not help her that I am the SPITTING IMAGE of my father, yet NONE of her kids look like him.
The sad part is, while my mother is a "reformed" cheater, learned her lesson and hasn't cheated on a soul in 32 years since my birth, my dad never changed. He STILL cheats on Cindy to this day and JUST this past week TOLD me about it! If he hadn't have done that on the phone, I would have slapped the ever living shit right out of him.
And yet, Cindy stays. I asked him WHY he continues to cheat on her and he said "She isn't going anywhere, she stayed through you".
I'm not telling you to leave your husband, but I am telling you this pain is probably never going to end.
Best of luck to you,.
What a sorry, sorry web they weave.
Having said that though, I dont know how you do it. I would never be able to do it.
Considering my dad is still married to Cindy, his kids aren't the ones that ever got hurt. I was. I didn't have a "relationship" with my dad until I hit 31. I hung out and played with his kids when I was little and could never figure out why Cindy was so mean to me AND got away with it.
My mom decided telling me when I was SIXTEEN that my dad wasn't my real dad. From 16-18 I had a relationship with him again, but Cindy decided to be an asshat at every chance she got. I finally just backed off FOR YEARS. I didn't see my dad again until I was 24 and it was only for a few minutes. I also seen him for about a half hour when I was 26. I didn't establish ANY type of relationship with him until this last past year and he is really trying.
Want to know what the sickest part is? My first kiss WAS MY BROTHER. ( I didnt know he was). good thing we moved away from them when I was 10, he might have become MUCH more later down the road.
People are truly, truly sick. Good luck to you. Again, I don't know how you do it. I sincerely don't. I wouldn't be able to. Nothing is going to stop the pain imo.