I just wanted to address the topic of being "in love" with the other woman or other man. just from my own experience, it wasn't real love, it was powerful infatuation, great need, and fantasy. I may have thought it was love at the time, but it wasn't. I suspect that many who think they are in love with the other person are just in love with love. of course, I am going to be inundated with exceptions, but I am not sure I buy it. Think about it for just a minute objectively. And if you are willing to admit that it isn't real love...then why risk a realtionship with someone who really does love you to be with somone who doesn't? I still can't figure that one out myself. I can't belive I risked filet mignon for a bit of bologna! Anyway, I think that many who cheat have fooled themselves into thinking it's the real thing, and they will sure be disappointed. I have heard several people here who are not remorseful for their affairs talk about being in love, and I am just not convinced.
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