Are there any men out here that have cheated? what I would like to hear are how you can come home and pretend to love the wife after being with another woman. I just can't understand how my H had an affair with someone for over at least 5 years and keep it a secret and pretend to love me. When i found out about the affair I asked why it ended "he told me she wanted him to marry her." I asked him why he didn't leave and he said "because of the kids". He told me the reason he had the affair was because he needed more than I could give him. I am trying to understand. I asked him how many others there had been and he told me "I don't want to tell you and you really don't want to know". I would like to know how other men feel. I want to get over this since I have already given him the best years of my life. I just don't know how I can spend my retirement years with him without understanding and overcoming this. Please try to help me with this. jennsue
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