This weekend is the first weekend since Jan where the husband and I have been seen as a couple. We went to his friends for dinner Friday night and it had a good time. On Saturday night we went to my friends housewarming party and he made a point to step aside with each of my girlfriends and apologize to them and thank them for supporting me. It made a big difference and also made me realize how much he has grown and how much he is trying. No pretending nothing happened and owning up to what he did. I have been struggling with wanting to say I love him again but have put it on the back burner. I hope others out there can benefit from this small healing experience one day.
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