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Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...

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Antidepressants?

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Anyone find antidepressants helpful, and any experience with Lexapro in general? Any bad side effects? The benefits?
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Hi Sugahrae.

First I wanted to say, I appreciate your hug. I think we have a lot of similarities in our situation. I went on Lexapro 3 months ago. After I found about his 2nd affair. I think I had been depressed for a LONG time. I only had some sexual side effects and actually lost a few pounds. I am feeling good now. Hope this helps for you.
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i have been on lexapro about a year. i was on wellbutrin before that. that had no sexual side effects, but didnt work on the anxiety that i had. lexapro works on both. lexapro, for me did have some sexual side effects. but they seem to lesson as time goes by. or maybe i worry so that i wont be able to orgasm while taking it that i cant. i went off it in august and by the end of october, i was so sad, suicidal, my family said go back on or we will have you committed. within a month i thought, i will never go off of these again. of course i gained a few pounds, but at least i am on this side of the grass!
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I was on anti depressants before I found out about the affair because I have clinical depression. I think it definitely kept my emotions in check and let me be rational. I actually missed a pill one day and turned into a screaming, crying wreck. My husband is lucky I was on the pills because I would have been really mean and crazy without them! lol
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I was on anti depressants before I found out about the affair because I have clinical depression. I think it definitely kept my emotions in check and let me be rational. I actually missed a pill one day and turned into a screaming, crying wreck. My husband is lucky I was on the pills because I would have been really mean and crazy without them! lol
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