My H cheated one week before our anniversary. It's still a while before it comes near again, but I haven't been able to figure out how I will handle my anniversary. I was thinking of ignoring the whole thing, pretend that it was just another day and make no mention of it. But I was told yesterday, my brother-in-law is getting married on our anniversary this year,(so much for pretending it's just any other day), I will just be reliving what I am beginning to believe was a huge mistake. At any rate, I was just wondering how those of you who decided to stick it through, how do you deal with anniversaries?
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