I had a question for some of you. Iam new to the group and Iam going thru a really tough time of it. I wanted to know how many of you were in situations like mne where your spouse felt no remorse for what they did and as a matter of fact rather than confess what they had done tried to flip the tables on you and make it seem as if th problems in the marriage was your fault. I guess in a situation lik ethis there really is no hope. I guess I watched too much tv in the past and believed that if a spouse cheated they would feel sorry for what they had done and would apologize all over the place an ask for another chance but I guess I was living in a fantasy world. I think Iam more hurt over his arrogance than anything else. iam trying to getmy head around the fact that he doesn't want to work on the marriage and that I must move on. Even now as Iam writing this he is communicating with the OW.I think that is why I said that I feel like goiung out and cheating too:it is not because he engaged in the initial behavior, rather it is because he is arrogant and doesn't care.I know that me cheating doesn't help,Iam just very lonely.I am tired and lonely and I don't want sex, I just want someone who cares!!!
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