Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
My husband as cheated on me before and after we married, i wanted a divorce but he wouldn't give it to me we been married 15 years, we are completely the oposite from each other, i was 17 and he was 27 when we met we have 2 children, and he was never responsible in anyway, i always have to care for the finance and the children and everything else all he does and did is just go to work, but i do that to, when i met him i had no illness now i have so many chronic illness that i cant even count one of them is HPV which he transmited to me or gave it to me as i was a virgin when we met and he was the only men i ever been with. He lied and cheated all our marriege life and i tell him to take control of our finance but he never does, when am to ill or in hospital having operations he still doesn't care, if wasn't for me we wouldn't have our own home, am now 33 years old and we still dont see eye to eye, i get so angry at him as he takes life so easy and i seem to be so ill and depressed, i tried several times to SUICIDE myself a few times infront of him but he didn't even move a muscle looks like he wants me DEAD. Please can someone help me in what to do, as i dont see a way out i cant stand him, we had a business for 5 years and was is name in it but i stil had to do the accounts, our overall finance and i had to work at another job to pay for the bills of the business as he was giving it all away what an asshole, am still here, am so stupid. HELP!!!!!!
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
Mountain, have you spoken to a counsellor and/or a lawyer?
That seems like a good place to start.
It's heartbreaking to read all that you have written, because it seems tough enough to have to deal with everything you have going on and the kids as well.
But you know that the kids are being so hurtgoing through all of this with you. You need to stop and take a metal note of all the things your kids have seen and heard you both say and do to each other and realise this is no longer about you.
You need to go and get some help so that your kids have a chance at being happy and having a better life than they have now.
Who knows, maybe focussing on the kiddies rather than on some of the pressure and stress of your illness as well as of your marriage will help you get through this.
Lots of hugs and support.