
Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
I have this overwhelming urge to call her H and tell him. I have his contact information and I believe he deserves to know. The thought of inflicting that pain on someone is what holds me back. He doesnt deserve it, although she damn sure does. What would you do? I dont know about getting past the anger if it can ever happen. At the end of the day it is your spouse my spouse that cheated but these people were fully aware.
Please tell me what you think.
as for still being angry with the slut.. yeah I am I think she had nerve knowing he was married and still sleeping with him...
sra I would say they are both getting what they deserve being miserable with each other..I feel for you that you dont have your house and stuff anymore but at least you dont have to deal with him anymore...
I wish all of you the best and remember to Take Care of YOU
to answer your question i absolutley would want to know. i asked my H a million times when i suspected. sometimes though men are different not sure if her H would want to know. I certainly dont want to inflict pain on him???
i am going to do that. I will call him tomorrow and I will let you know how it goes.
rms
sorry for taking over your thread. the way i see it though of course you have anger toward the OW but he is the one who was in a committed relationship with you, she was not. he is the one who chose to cheat on you,
I do have a very difficult time with this...while I blame him, I have to blame her as well. She knew he was married and she continued on with him anyway. not only did she do that but became pregnant and he "funded" her abortion. The thought makes me ill. Did either one of them think about the other children involved? (meaning ours and hers) Hell no! I just dont know how to forgive that one. Perhaps that forgiveness is just not up to me.
She was married 30 years and had affairs with married co-workers from the start of her marriage. And when my husband dropped her like a hot potato after DDay-she never even blinked. Never called, emailed, etc. Because she never cared about him- it's not about love or even sex for her-its some kind of warped way of feeling powerful. She can get a married guy to betray his wife for her.I can't even go into stuff she did-exposing herself to guys at work (yes she is supposedly a professional woman)...so she's a total nut...and guess what? she's now pursuing another married co-worker!