Just spoke with stbx and he is delivering the final papers today. Along with an apology that this has happened. Said he was unhappy for awhile or discontent or something but did not question himself too much about it...and then he met her and the rest has been the nightmare. he really didn't love me enough to fix it. maybe he didn't want to fix it. did not understand that all marriages have lulls and need attention-i wasn't understanding that either. not until i lost him. what a painful lesson to learn. i want to hate him but i cannot. if his feelings just changed who is to blame? That's his perception now-that no matter what the outcome would have been the same for us-divorce. i am just so sad to lose my best friend, my companion...
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