Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
Hubby finally confesses a few weeks ago. Begs me to give him a 2nd chance; swears to never talk to her again. Next day, distant and cold. Let's start as friends, see where things go. When we have gone out to dinner, it's awkward. No signs of warmth or intimacy. He tells me to go out- meet new people, stay busy. So, met a nice guy through my brother. Got drunk, slept with him that night- and several times since. Something I never would think of doing. I still want my husband to love me. But, I don't know how long it will take for him to decide if he wants me. But, I need male companionship-to be kissed & held & made to feel sexy and desired. So I guess I'm not a victim anymore.
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
Good luck, when the others see this post!
Your reaction to yourhusband's infidelity is understandable. It sounds as if he blind-sided you and you just went to the first place you could find for comfort.
You may find that running from your pain does not work for long though. Unless, you really dont love your husband, the pain will catch up anyway.
Please seek counseling and support other than this man. Men, as you know, are very fickle and he should not be the only person you can turn to, when the shock wears off and you begin to feel the pain.
Please continue to read and post here. There are many supportive people on DS.
what do you want out of life...you need to look inward for comfort instead of looking for someone else to justify who you are
Leave this other guy alone! He probably is half descent and by YOU going outside your marriage with him, its going to mess him up! You have a big enough mess to deal with, leave him out, and all other men!!
You should be looking @ fixing yourself right now, not your sex drive.
If it takes getting laid by a vertual stranger to make you feel sexy....you need a GOOD counselor b/c you have more issue than just a divorce.
I don't think the point should be who the victim is right now. If you and your husband want to be together, and want to work through this, then you need to seek counseling together. The key is, you both have to want the same thing. Counseling can help you both determine what you want, and how to go about getting it.
I haven't been a member here long, but I think the point of these boards is to support one another, not to bash one another, or to take sides ("cheaters" vs. "non-cheaters"). It takes guts to own up to your mistakes and to ask for help. So keep coming back and get whatever support you need in order to move forward.