My H and I have been dealing with our issues. AA has gotten him to see his wrong doings and he has been up front with me so far (as far as I know). He assured me that he was going to be open and honest with me from now on. Because of the infidelity issues in the past (both physical and emotional affairs) I asked him not to mingle with OW and to keep it to men only - at least in a non-group environment. He agreed. He has been using an AA chat room that I told him about to help keep him on track. I also go on from time to time but try and give him his space. Usually if I walk into the room when he is on the site he doesn't have an issue with it. Today I walked into the room and he had a side chat going on with someone. He seemed caught off guard and asked if I could come back in a few minutes. I respected what he had asked and walked away. A few minutes later he called me back and apologized for being so abrupt. When I asked him who he was talking to he admitted that it was a W. He explained that he was trying to tell her to stay away from someone because they only wanted to get into her pants (this was from a mans point of view - his). He did come out and tell me about it but he also when against our promise about mingling with OW. How do I know that he would have told me if I didn't walk into the room at that time? Am I over reacting by being angry right now?
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