I saw a program on TV a few months ago about it... That was the first time that I had ever heard of it...

It seems that everyone was against it on the program, but I think it is a good idea.

I wish we had it in the state were I live..

I completely agree with you. Here's a link for more information on this topic, at least here in North Carolinahttp://www.carolinafamilylaw.com/alienation_of_affection.html?type=GoogleAdWordsSearch&gclid=CNK1n8TrhZACFUWoGgodDEOpsw

if you don't care about going public...I wonder if you couldn't take the OW to small claims court and sue her for the maximum..usually $5,000...for any expenses you may have incurred...doctor bills, therapy bills, medication, lost work, mental anguish etc.... I bet a sympathetic judge could award some money..but, I also think there's a chance that a local newspaper picks up the story....just a thought..

I would LOVE to take the OW to court, but I don't want to waste my time on her. I am going to concentrate on making myself stronger, and (if it works) making my marriage stronger. The best revenge (for me) will be making sure no OW can claim my husband.

i have thought long and hard about this and have even done a little research on it. i live in north carolina where this is the law and i could very well sue my husbands mistress for the affair and for having his baby( i wanted to sue his ass too!) oprah recently did a show about mistress and the wives and she had a wife on the show that sued the OW and won. my husbands "whore" can't even take care of the 4 kids she has, but i would love for her to have to pay me for the rest of her life to remind her of all the pain and destruction she was part of. my husband has to pay everyday, she deserves to have to pay too. only problem is that she is trash so she probably learned nothing from what she did. i am totally for this law and i would back anyone who decided to persue it.

i have heard people call this law obsured but that mostly comes from the OW, go figure!

The best revenge for me on both the OW and my H is to let them have each other. Nothing I could do to them could be worse than what they do!

I would love to take her to court cause I've been missing affection for a long time, but her ass is so broke she's losing her home, so what good would that do?

I have looked into this, and if I decide to divorce my husband I would most likely file a case against the OW.

I wish I could sue her for this. I love the term. I have medical bills the whore should have paid and more for the rest of my life that belong to her.