
Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...

betrayed4years
I thought NC was a state in which wives and husbands can sue for this. I found this on an attorney's web site:
North Carolina is in the minority
The existence of continuing cases of this sort in North Carolina appears to surprise lawyers and residents in many other states because we are now in a very small minority of jurisdictions -- including Hawaii, Illinois, Mississippi, New Hampshire, New Mexico, South Dakota and Utah -- which still recognize both alienation of affection and criminal conversation. Forty three states and the District of Columbia have abolished the cause of action for alienation of affection. The states vary widely in the way they deal with this issue: in some states, only one of the two causes of action continues to exist, and thus proof of the claim and/or damages have been significantly curtailed in recent years. None of these reforms has altered the stance favoring such claims in this State.
Interestingly enough, on this site, they give awards over the years for these kinds of suits - here's the web site:
http://www.rosen.com/ppf/Law/Divorce/rosen/201/articles.asp
Although I have entertained the thought, it was when I only knew of the one affair - I wonder if I could sue ALL of them in a 'class action suit' and get more money??? LOLOLOLOLOL
North Carolina is in the minority
The existence of continuing cases of this sort in North Carolina appears to surprise lawyers and residents in many other states because we are now in a very small minority of jurisdictions -- including Hawaii, Illinois, Mississippi, New Hampshire, New Mexico, South Dakota and Utah -- which still recognize both alienation of affection and criminal conversation. Forty three states and the District of Columbia have abolished the cause of action for alienation of affection. The states vary widely in the way they deal with this issue: in some states, only one of the two causes of action continues to exist, and thus proof of the claim and/or damages have been significantly curtailed in recent years. None of these reforms has altered the stance favoring such claims in this State.
Interestingly enough, on this site, they give awards over the years for these kinds of suits - here's the web site:
http://www.rosen.com/ppf/Law/Divorce/rosen/201/articles.asp
Although I have entertained the thought, it was when I only knew of the one affair - I wonder if I could sue ALL of them in a 'class action suit' and get more money??? LOLOLOLOLOL
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Why is it that the OW is a whore, slut, etc? She stole your husband away? Essentially its HER fault? you konw what? Thats kinda crap if you think about it.
She has no allegence to you. She doesn't owe you anything. Think of it this way, Melissa1 and everyone else:
You are a married to a man lets call Paul. Paul and I meet at a party. I am the OW. I am single and Paul flirts with me. I flirt back. Paul asks me for my number, I give it to him. Lets say for the sake of arguement that I learn that Paul is married. Yet Paul continually persues me like Tiger chasing after a Giselle. Its not my responsiblity to make sure your husband doesnt' stray! I don't owe you anymore than you owe me. I don't know you from a can of paint...why should I tell your wayward husband to f-off? If I choose to get into a relationship with him...there are 2 willing parties. Its up to your husband to say, "You konw what? I'm sorry. I'm married, I can't be involved with you."
I am not a whore. I am not a slut. I am just a woman trying to find happiness. Your husband has a responsibilty to the commitment of the marriage. NOT ME!!
When my boyfriend cheated and ended up knocking her up...I didn't blame her. Not once. Not even for a second. That was HIS fault. 100% his fault for cheating. It was 50% MY fault for not taking care of his needs at home so that he was happy and content to stay put!
There are plenty of people on here who were under the impression that their marriages were wonderful. They were meeting their spouse's needs. Their spouse just wanted something extra on the side.
My wife and I didn't have a wonderful marriage. Neither one of us was meeting the other's needs. But, I didn't have an affair. Not all men fit into the neat little categories of a book. Neither do all women. We don't all have the same characteristics nor the same needs. Yes, many people have misplaced anger. The cheating spouse is the betrayer. But, so is the other person. They are DEFINITELY part of the blame game if they knew at any point in the affair that their partner was married.