I just found out Friday morning that my wife engaged in a 6 month affair which ended 2 months ago - mostly because he wasn't showing her enough attention toward the end. They would meet one time per week during lunch or after work. We have two small children. She always said over the years(about 100 times) "if you EVER cheat, I will leave you." I NEVER considered cheating - it is not in my character. She actively sought out an affair on a chat room. We did not have a great marriage, but I never expected this. I have been blindsided. I am finding it very hard to cope. Divorce would be simple if children were not in the equation. I am extremely resentful, and in a hell of a lot of pain. I haven't slept in days, and my mind is racing. Where do I go from here?
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