I have not decided whether or not to leave my husband. I really want to. There is still love between us, but I don't know if it is enough. He is not willing to communicate about our marriage and that is very difficult for me. I am willing to work things out, but I need more from him. My concern with staying is that I am afraid to be intimate with him. I want to be intimate, but my biggest fear is physical-disease. I know that there is a risk if a partner is unfaithful. We have an 11 month old and I want to be a responsible mother. However, my concerns with leaving are financial and concern for our daughter. I know that we would not be able to sell our home for what we owe. Does anybody have advice as far as options in this housing market? Neither one of us can afford the mortgage on our own. If I just left and let the house go into foreclosure, what would be the ramifications? I would like to leave and go live with my parents. They live in another state four hours away. I don't want to share custody of our daughter. He is an OK dad. He loves our daughter, but doesn't put the time in with her that I would like to see. What would be the ramifications with custody? Do I just accept how he is until our daughter is 18? Thanks for listening.
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