Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
My husband had an affair which has resulted in an unwanted (by all parties) pregnancy. Not only have I had to get over the betrayal, which I am slowly doing, how the hell do I gewt through this? As a mother I know it is not the baby's fault, she didn't ask to be born. But how do get through Christmas (when it is due) and future Christmases when I will know it's birthday is? Husband does not want anything to do with it although he is willing to pay. She tried to trap him with the pregnancy. It was a final attempt to keep him as all else had failed, she had been balckmailing him for months. I am so worried about how I will cope with this, I don't even know where to start. We are very strong and he loves me a lot but this is just so HUGE.
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Is there any way to get legal guidelines in your area? She, of course, has no right to blackmail. But, your husband has obligations as the father of the baby. I think a bottom-line legal document is in order so that he knows exactly what he's expected to do. If she doesn't want the baby, why is she not giving her up for adoption? She's going to be one angry woman if she has an unwanted baby and has just had her to keep your husband on a line. She's going to hate your husband, which, I assume, won't bother you too much. But, will she hate her own child? I'm just a little concerned about that.
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my h`s slut tried to say she was pregnant and never heard anymore after that so I dont know if she was and had the baby and told her H it was his or if it was just a trap...I dont have much advice to give on this topic but can give ya a shoulder to cry on if you need it... there is another poster here on ds who is going through this and she is a great person...dont think she would mind me saying her name ...as she posts alot about it...jaew if you take offense of me telling her you name I apologize but you are an inspiration my friend...debb I hope you find the support you need and Take Care of YOU
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
