What if i am right. What if husband left me because of my age, my weight, my looks, my personality. He said he grew bored. He said he just was so infatuated that "someone like her" would want anything to do with him. After a few months of an emotional affair he bailed and is now with her and her children. She's 15 years my jr. attractive and bubbley. i get up in the a.m. after not sleeping and look at myself in the mirror and think no wonder he left me. Until he met her there was no clue that he was unhappy. And i know she intentionally persued him. She had 2 failed marriages previously. He has turned cold and distant and finally said he did not want to be married to me anymore and then he literally ran out the door and moved in with her. He says he feels guilty about doing this to our family but it's just the way it is. Are people really this shallow? it seems he has never looked back. It has been so cruel and hard on me at times i am beside myself. i want to believe that the affair will peter out and he will realize the price he paid for it. right now they are both thinking they have found the love of their life and i am left picking up the pieces of a broken life. Any insight anyone? I feel stuck in grief and humiliation. Even friends are starting to think that "everyone is entitled to persue their own happiness. i am doing all the right things counseling, reading, friends, so far i am lost.
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