He cheated. Who knows why? It was a flaw that he had in his character I suppose. Always thought the grass was greener on the other side.

He cheated,, numerous times, cause I let him get away with it!

He cheated, because he wanted good times only and none of the bad. He cheated because he was only thinking about himself. He cheated because he cared more about himself than me.

Him, not sure if he even knowes why

He cheated because he could. Said it was all just a fantasy and trivial pursuit. I wonder if it was a fantasy for the OW?

him... possibly because he thought he was the shit... well look whos all alone now motherfucker!
seriously though, i dunno why probably all of the reasons listed above and then some.

He cheated, twice. I think both times because I shut him out out of disrespect and he had opportunity.

he cheated numerous times with the same woman over the past 4 years...

as for they why well first I got a I dont know, then I got it was a mistake. Now I got that it was because he was feeling old and had put on some weight and it felt good to have me and another woman who loved him and found him attractive. Now he says he was just plain stupid and childish ..

He cheated, He's stupid. Thats what he said anyway. I think he thought he could detach himself from his family long enough to satisfy his sexual need to just be bad. He couldnt do it, and now feels like a dickhead and hes right he is!

She cheated, more than once and lied about it until the evidence was in her face. She's just a cheater, she will do it again and again to her next lover(s)...

He cheated. Why? For numerous reasons: he was lonely (we lived 2500 miles apart), she was available, she seduced him, we were going through a rough time and he thought we were on the outs anyway (BS), you name it. The main reason is that he couldn't keep his dick in his pants, and if someone were to come along today and offer him some of her goods, he'd be right on it, I truly believe that.

He did.

Why? I was having to deal with chronic pain for several years (and still do) and it was hard for both to deal with. his high school sweetheart (he was engaged to marry-back 30 some years ago) also contacted him through a reconnection site (won't say what) during this time of discouragement and feelings of hopelessness we were going through. She was going through a divorce and looked him up-and would assumed hoped to rekindle whatever it was they had. Emails turned to phone calls-to eventually seeing one another. I found out by finding the first few emails that started the whole thing. He vows was the only time he saw her, and nothing happened. That he loved me and didn't want to lose me. He highly regrets what he did but can't say why he did it.

We had 21 years together at the time-and all that I believed in and the years of trust we had-all went out the window. He really regrets the lost of trust I have of him-but hey! he did this, he knew better, the curiousty of seeing her again, got the better part of him. I have my doubts with it being the one time-or that NOTHING happened. We are working at things but I still hurt badly and its been near 2 1/2 years. I just was totally devastated and really had no idea-till I found the emails-and feel stupid I didn't see the few red flags he displayed! Today with emails and cellphones, it makes things easier to do without having any suspicious things for us to find or see.

He cheated.
Does anyone but 'them' ever really know the answer to that question???

It was him and he did it for him

He cheated.
WHY? we're still working on that. But each time (3) he had been TDY with the Army and with a group of single young stupid guys and around sleazy "barrack slut" whores that prey on Army men. The women have a revolving door to screw them. I strongly believe it was an ego boost for my H. He never left me for anyone and when he was not on TDY he was home and never strayed.