Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
If you are married and was faced with your spouse having an affair please answer this poll.
Who Cheated Him/You?
Why?
Who Cheated Him/You?
Why?
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
seriously though, i dunno why probably all of the reasons listed above and then some.
as for they why well first I got a I dont know, then I got it was a mistake. Now I got that it was because he was feeling old and had put on some weight and it felt good to have me and another woman who loved him and found him attractive. Now he says he was just plain stupid and childish ..
Why? I was having to deal with chronic pain for several years (and still do) and it was hard for both to deal with. his high school sweetheart (he was engaged to marry-back 30 some years ago) also contacted him through a reconnection site (won't say what) during this time of discouragement and feelings of hopelessness we were going through. She was going through a divorce and looked him up-and would assumed hoped to rekindle whatever it was they had. Emails turned to phone calls-to eventually seeing one another. I found out by finding the first few emails that started the whole thing. He vows was the only time he saw her, and nothing happened. That he loved me and didn't want to lose me. He highly regrets what he did but can't say why he did it.
We had 21 years together at the time-and all that I believed in and the years of trust we had-all went out the window. He really regrets the lost of trust I have of him-but hey! he did this, he knew better, the curiousty of seeing her again, got the better part of him. I have my doubts with it being the one time-or that NOTHING happened. We are working at things but I still hurt badly and its been near 2 1/2 years. I just was totally devastated and really had no idea-till I found the emails-and feel stupid I didn't see the few red flags he displayed! Today with emails and cellphones, it makes things easier to do without having any suspicious things for us to find or see.
Does anyone but 'them' ever really know the answer to that question???
WHY? we're still working on that. But each time (3) he had been TDY with the Army and with a group of single young stupid guys and around sleazy "barrack slut" whores that prey on Army men. The women have a revolving door to screw them. I strongly believe it was an ego boost for my H. He never left me for anyone and when he was not on TDY he was home and never strayed.