
Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...

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Does anyone have suggestions for ways to piece together the hstory of the affair? I have some information based on a few things my husband has told me. Since his whole family was in the dark regarding this affair they knew very little. When they were out in public the famiy and/or friends just felt that the two of them were just on business ( she works in our business) and that they were "just friends." Her husband died two years ago and no one ever really gave i a thought. Please let me know how to piece the story together. it might help me find the truth. Thanks to all Rita21
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Check the phone records online, they go back more than a year. Check his email. If you don't have access to either one, buy a sim card reader for his cell phone. You can read every text message he's ever sent/received. For the computer, you can get buy spygear and install it in about 10 minutes. That allows you to read every key stroke and it is invisible to him, he will not know it is on the computer. You can get a GPS tracker to place in the car, again invisible to him and no monthly fees.
It also helps to keep a diary of what he says, where he went, etc. You can do this with your online mail account and it allows you to go back and compare new information with historical so that you don't go crazy when he tells you you're crazy.
Hope this helps. Sorry you're going through it, I know this causes you alot of anxiety.
First of all ask yourself do you really want to know? Will it make any difference? No matter the "true" story, it happened. If it's over; it is now up to you to decide where it will go. IF his affair is still going on.... do you want to go on with him?