We have 3 days left before our divorce hearing. My STBX wanted to celebrate Christmas , I said NO , she indicated that I was not being amicable but I thought it would be better that way.She send me a text message , " I feel bad 2 End this way , would like u 2 be more Civil". I am not sure what to do , I wanted to be with her , spend my entire life but she choose to betray me and manipulate me all the way. I still have gory images, hurtful dreams and awful memories. She asked me if I would take her back in six months if she really loves me , first of all I guess it won't happen because she loves her BF so much such that she can hurt me and break my trust and love, secondly I guess that's not her true feeling and finally I am not somebody's plan B. What do I do for next 3 days , should I spend time with her or just completely ignore her, whenever I see her I get all happy and forget the betrayal , but not sure that's the healthy feeling. Please help me out.
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