My husband told me a month ago that he cheated on me over 8 months ago. He did it once and only once. He was very sorry for what he did and seemed distraught in holding on to this secret. At first I thought it was some kind of joke but the more we talked, the more I realized that he was telling the truth. He found this woman on Craigslist and saw that she looked decent and responded to her add. She agreed, came to our place and they did the dirty deed in our place, in our bed. He said as soon as he did it, he felt awful. I was first shocked, I think I was in denial .. even after a few days I thought he didn't tell me a thing but then I realized how naieve I was to think this was a fib. Even after hearing it, I wanted to hate him but did not. Is something wrong with me? Now, it's been a month, I am not sure what is right and what is wrong. I believe him when he says he has only seen her the one time .. and has not done anything since. I feel very depressed about the whole thing. I don't know how I truly feel .. is this wrong? any advice would be appreciated!
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