
Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...

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I found out three weeks ago that my husband whom I have been married to for ten years and loved and trusted from the bottom of my heart, has been having casual sex with people that he had met on an internet dating site. This has been going on for the past 5 years. I thought we had the perfect marriage ( in fact he says and still says that it was perfect)... but find it difficult to believe reasons for straying if he does love me and we did have the perfect marriage. I have two children so decided to give counselling a go.. I am scared of staying in case he hurst me again and scared of leaving because can not imagine life without him. What should I do?
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Only you can decide if what is left of your marriage is enough to keep you there. 5 years of casual sex says alot.
Try the counseling. It may do a world of good.
Get yourself checked -- see a doctor. And the deal breaker? If he continues to do this cheating with these women.
Once again, so sorry for your pain.
It is sickening to consider the betrayal and dishonesty that people are compelled towards as they pander to their sexual addictions. I can't call casual furtive sex a relationship.
Tell us more..... has he confessed? What are his 'reasons'? How dod you find out? Will he go to counseling, be transparent?
I am sorry for the stress and terrible pain this discovery has caused you, but I am pretty sure that you are better off knowing the realities....
I am so sorry to hear that you're having to face the pain and torture of your H's betrayal.
If you feel your marriage and H deserve a chance then I think counselling is worth the time and effort. At least this way you will know for sure what has happened and maybe you'll discover what went wrong if anything?
I wish you well.
Regards
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