My husband's affair has been over for 2 years now. It was with a beautiful intelligent (married) woman from his office. I was the one who figured it out and put a stop to it. Not him. She has since left the office and is working elsewhere. He is now doing and saying all the right things. Has really been wanting to work it out and put the past behind us. He tells me he doesn't think about her ever. Well....I was looking at the past history on his computer and saw that he has googled her name several times in the past year. He querried her name on reunion.com, on youtube, on google, etc. He is OBVIOUSLY thinking of her. I confronted him about this and he doesn't have an answer. Says he is not sure when or why he would have looked her name up. Then he switches the converation and tells me that I am looking for dirt and I need to foucs on "us". He tells me he is mortified by the thought of what he did to me and the kids. Well...why look up her name to see what you will "find" if you are so moritifed. I dont' get it!!!?? What do you think? Should I be worried here? I still have MAJOR trust issues with him and can't put my mind at ease when I see things like this. I think he may have left me and my kids for her had she not been married herself. I just don't want to be with a man who is married to me, claims I am the only woman for him, but is constantly thinking of the "other woman". Do I just let my little findings slide?
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