Over the course of my almost 10 year (next month) marriage, my husband has proven to be untrustworthy. He has a gambling problem, which has resulted in a lying problem. Even though I don't trust him, I never thought he would cheat on me. He has been spending a lot of time on the computer, and I know he will occasionally look at pornography. A few days ago (with him sitting right next to me) I asked him if he had been and he swore he hadn't. I asked if he'd mind if I checked his "history" so I could see he wasn't lying and he agreed. I saw he had been on a site called adultfriendfinder, which I found out was a site to meet people to have sex with. He had a profile (which he paid for) and even sent emails reaching out to multiple people telling them he was married and looking for some fun that he wasn't getting at home (which is a lie). He swears that nothing ever happend and that he would have never taken it any farther than emailing (which he knew was wrong in itself)...I am currently in limbo and unsure of what to do. We always said that we would never cheat, and if we were unhappy we would just end our marriage...did I mention I was pregnant with our 4th son???
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