My friend just blew me off, because she doesn't want any part of me and my H anymore. I have been her best friend for 25 years, and she is tired of watching me go through this crap. I don't blame her, because she has been my sounding board for so long, and she really wants me to divorce him. I told her I had to give him one more shot, and she just blew up, and said she loves me, but can't watch him hurt me anymore.I KNOW what she is saying, but she isn't going through this, so how can she be judgemental, and how can she tell me how I should feel? How does she know what it is like to break up a family, she doesn't know, and she would never break up her family, no matter what, (she does have the perfect H), so she will never have too.I just feel so bad, but I have to stay my plan, either we will remarry or we get divorced, but it will be on my time, not my friends time. Can anyone relate?
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