I have recently found that my husband was cheating on me with someone he barley knew. He would talk to her everyday (I saw phone records)and the thing is is he didn't even tell me, I had to figure it out on my own, then with a little help from this other person & her friend who confirmed by thoughts. That is when he finally confessed to everything. He couldn't even look at me in the face and tell me he had to leave the house to tell me over the phone. I have been married for 10 years, been with him 11. The man I married was not this person that did this to me & our family. I don't understand?? He tells me he doesn't know why he did it either. He told me that she was easy and he knew it by their conversations, because she would always talk about her other relationships & what she did.... He has said he is so sorry more than I can count. Even went to my parents & sister and told them he was sorry that he was going to make this up and dedicate his life to making me happy again. You know, he says all the right things (of course, who wouldn't) but, I am so scared and hurt that I can't trust anything he says right now, and I feel so much pain that I don't know what to do with it. I so have wanted to ask someone that this has happened to, "how do you go on, how do you ever get over this?"
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