
Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
My mother had died about a year and half previous and I was going through some problems... Depression, Weight gain, etc...I was having problems at work with my supervisor and instead of helping and being understanding, he as the typical male wanted to solve the problem his way ... Because of that I stopped talking to him about it....
He was stupid (his words) and when his supervisor made a pass at him, he took her up on it...It was a fantasy world for him.. and he didn't think that I would ever find out.. He didn't realize how the guilt would feel to him...(He told me himself)...
Why? I see now that his childhood was a big factor in his character...
His mother suffered from depression and would tell him that she was leaving him... if he did something bad as a small child..
He would do anything in his power to keep from making her mad at him...
In other words, her love for him was conditional. I guess, he never learned to love anyone, unconditionally... (Some parents lay a lot of things on their children) His father also cheated on his mother and he knew about it...
This is just my story... I am sure that there are many hundreds out there...
I think the reasons for all our decisions in life goes back to how we grew up...
Maybe you should ask the cheater, if their parents or grandparents were cheaters...
I am not excusing the cheaters... because this is the very worse thing that has ever happened in my life... Just some thoughts!
Hope this helps!