
Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...

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I don't know what to do. My H said that he loves me and that I mean the world to him and that he is sorry that he hurt me. I think that he really believes that.
I thought we were trying to work everything out, but he eveidently either "destroyed" a substitute phone or has already got another one. He was texting again last night after he supposedly went to bed. He dropped the phone when I opened the door, and when I asked him what the noise was, he played if off like I was hearing things.
I'm sooo frustrated right now that I'm sick to my stomach. I feel like my heart is shattered into a million pieces.
How could he look me in the eyes and swear that he loved me and that I "am everything in the world to him", then go behind my back again so soon. I know it is only texting. But he's still trying to hide it from me. I feel like all my trust in him has been betrayed and that I will NEVER be able to trust him again.
I don't know whether to try to confront him again or just let it go until he gets careless again.
This is eating away at me and I don't know what to do. I want to try to save my marriage and I'm willing to forgive him. I just need him to tell me the truth.
Can anyone out there tell me how to make him tell me what's going on? Do I call the OW and ask her? What?
I thought we were trying to work everything out, but he eveidently either "destroyed" a substitute phone or has already got another one. He was texting again last night after he supposedly went to bed. He dropped the phone when I opened the door, and when I asked him what the noise was, he played if off like I was hearing things.
I'm sooo frustrated right now that I'm sick to my stomach. I feel like my heart is shattered into a million pieces.
How could he look me in the eyes and swear that he loved me and that I "am everything in the world to him", then go behind my back again so soon. I know it is only texting. But he's still trying to hide it from me. I feel like all my trust in him has been betrayed and that I will NEVER be able to trust him again.
I don't know whether to try to confront him again or just let it go until he gets careless again.
This is eating away at me and I don't know what to do. I want to try to save my marriage and I'm willing to forgive him. I just need him to tell me the truth.
Can anyone out there tell me how to make him tell me what's going on? Do I call the OW and ask her? What?
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If you can't do that, how about a little taste of his own medicine? Set up a fake texting buddy for yourself and let him find it, or do it openly in front of him. See what he says about you acting like he is. I'd bet it'll give him a different perspective on his own behavior.
You also need to know (really know) that you deserve better. Respect yourself, or he won't.