
Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...

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So, my H cheated om me almost 2 months ago now....Lately I have been sooo horny!! The big problem is that when I want to just grab him and go at it, all I can see are images of him with the OW and how nasty she is...which of course totally kills it. It seems like i am constantly turned on though; he here....but like i said it makes my belly turn thinking of what they did (unfortunatly i heard IN DETAIL most of what happened). EWW. And ideas??? Trust my the "self pleasing" thing is getting me no where..........
Anyone out there thats been in my shoes, how did you go about the "intimate" issue after everything?..................
Anyone out there thats been in my shoes, how did you go about the "intimate" issue after everything?..................
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It does help to read some of the books available that address the issues facing us. There are many helpful books recommended on this site, next to discussions. The one that comforted me most was "Not Just Friends" by Shirley Glass.
Only you can say when and if you are ready to resume sexual relations. Most professional recommend doing so, if your partner is trying to repair the damage done and you also want to save the marriage or just maybe want to. I think what is most important is to be true to yourself. Sex tends to help the couple rebond. If you are ready for that, tell your husband, nicely, that it is difficult for you, but that you still love and miss him.
PLEASE GET TESTED FOR STD'S AND ASK YOUR HUSBAND TO DO THE SAME..FIRST. YOU DO NOT WANT TO WILLINGLY RISK A DISEASE, NOW THAT YOU HAVE THE CHOICE.
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NAVE
Part of what you might be feeling is the need to prove to yourself you are still attractive and he desires you. Our self-esteam is at an all time low right now. At least that's the way it is for me. Part of you may want to reclaim what is yours, so to speak.