I am so depressed. Let's please look at it from my point of view. Let's say I do divorce and eventually I get asked out on a date. Do you want to go to the movies? Herpes. Do you want to go to dinner? Herpes. It's there for the rest of my life. Forever. The first thing out of my mouth when I am asked out would not of course be Herpes. So let's say I go to eat or see a show or to the opera or whatever. Let's say I date. Feelings grow. Let's say now for hypothetical purposes only that I fall in love with one of the most gentle, loving men I have ever met. What happens next when he wants to get involved? My GYN says that the drug companies are trying to sell a pill, that even with suppression drugs and condoms if you have sex with someone who has herpes you will eventually catch herpes. So I have a responsibility... I HAVE to tell him I have herpes. He can do 1 of 2 things. He can walk away. He can say I DON'T CARE! Fine fine, but I'm in love then AND if I truly love someone with all my heart and if I am a decent person I will NEVER take the chance of spreading this disease to someone else, especially someone I love. I HAVE TO WALK AWAY. And if I don't know how then I am a heartless bitch who is self-serving in every way. Does it not then make sense to just stay with my husband who already gave it to me, whether he loves me or not? Really want opinnions here, honest opininions.
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