My husband has told me he's filing for divorce. We have been married 3 yrs & have twins 6 mos old. We have had problems but to me, they are very small & with a counselor we could definitely work it out. Problem, he refuses to see one. This is both of our second marriages & we have kids from them. We know have not only added children to this relationship but have blended our families & have become very close to each others kids. It hurts so much & I do know like my 1st marriage this to shall pass. But I really thought that because we were older, both of us had been married before & both been cheated on so we understood what we needed to do. That's why it kills me that he's ready to just give it all up without a second thought. And to top it off, my first husband left me for a much younger woman so it took me a long time to let my guard down and trust and open my heart again. Now I find out about a woman that's supposedly a old friend and he's been seeing her. Here we go again! I try to tell myself this is him but I'm the common denominator in both failed marriages. What am I to think? URGH!!!