
Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...

deleted_user
My husband has told me he's filing for divorce. We have been married 3 yrs & have twins 6 mos old. We have had problems but to me, they are very small & with a counselor we could definitely work it out. Problem, he refuses to see one. This is both of our second marriages & we have kids from them. We know have not only added children to this relationship but have blended our families & have become very close to each others kids. It hurts so much & I do know like my 1st marriage this to shall pass. But I really thought that because we were older, both of us had been married before & both been cheated on so we understood what we needed to do. That's why it kills me that he's ready to just give it all up without a second thought. And to top it off, my first husband left me for a much younger woman so it took me a long time to let my guard down and trust and open my heart again. Now I find out about a woman that's supposedly a old friend and he's been seeing her. Here we go again! I try to tell myself this is him but I'm the common denominator in both failed marriages. What am I to think? URGH!!!

betrayed4years
This is NOT your fault, either time! As our counselor told me and my H, people make choices, regardless if they are good or bad. People CHOOSE to do the things they do and have only themselves to blame when it is a bad choice. Your H is choosing divorce rather than being a bigger person and sticking to his marriage and his family. This has NOTHING to do with you and ALL to do with him - and his BAD choices. Smile - God loves you and so do I! I'll pray for you! {{{{{HUGS}}}}}

deleted_user
Thank you for helping me understand it's not me. Somewhere inside I know these are the choices these men have made but my psyche is playing tricks on me. Especially since I'm feeling very insecure and vulerable. You see, I quit my job, the biggest part of my security. If I was making my own money I knew I could take care of myself and my children. I quit once we had the twins and now he's saying he's leaving. I don't understand it at all.
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