Ok, here I go. I have been married for 2 years to the woman I dreamed of my entire life. We have been together for 6 years, we were high school sweethearts and have only "been" with each other. I have been suspecting that she was doing something behind my back for months now. A few nights ago, she was upstairs in the computer room with my best friend looking online for something, while his wife and myself were downstairs. I have suspected them before, and wanted to sneak up on them to see if they were dumb enough to do something. I walked to the door and there they were, kissing and touching. They didnt know I saw them, later that night going to bed, I kept trying to get her to confess to me. Finally I said "were you two kissing in there tonight". She say "No". Long story short, I told her I had seen her and she then said he tried to kiss me but I said no. I told her I stood at the door and watched. She then admited everything, that they had been having a "wierd" relationship for 2 months -he was married a month ago- and that they had dont nothing more that kiss, twice, and talk about getting together for more. As the days have passed I keep getting more details, he kissed her neck, touched her breast and inner thigh, she touched his penis. I am beated to death by this because I never saw it happening to US, WE are each others support group. She is pleading with me to give US a chance, but I dont think I should. I love this woman with every single ounce of myself, and she has taken my trust, and I cannot talk to my best friend about it because he did it with her. She said they had a plan to meet the day before I caught them while I was at work and his wife was at school, but she said NO. Someone please give me some advice at how this could even be possible in a perfect marriage!!!
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