You know, I wondered the same thing. But, the nurse called me in basically one of the over the counter creams the day after transfer and told me to use it right away and not wait to treat. I would assume that would mean it was safe. She did however tell me NOT to take diflucan while pregnant or if you think you may be, especially in first trimester. It is known to cause something or another (I forget).

oh. well i have really started to worry.

I have two things working against me

One is that i had a YI. I took the one day Monistat. They wanted me to use the 3 day but i told them i couldnt because the 3 day fell into the time of ovulating. HI, Ew.

so I assume it is gone but I didnt really have symptoms, it must have been caught before it was bad.

My other thing against me is that I had used the OPK and gotten a positive the morning after my shot. I didnt know that the shot would give a false positive. WE BD the night of the shot and the next night but not the next day when that 36-40 hour window would have happened. I just wonder if that sperm that stays in your body, really does stay??

So I now have to wait til next Wed, 2 weeks plus 2 days they said. Wednesday! Like a whole 'nother week. I dunno. I just worry I blew my chances.

I just dont know how long I can do this stuff. This is sooo hard. And other than you guys, no one understands it. Not even my husband.

I know exactly how you feel girly! Why is it that we seem to be the only humans on the planet that understand each other? LOL! I just got done having a discussion with my DH and he has the nerve to tell me that he wishes his priorities were as important to me as having a baby! I asked him what he was talking about and hes like, Welllike buying a house, and getting our credit scores up. WHAT THE HELL IS THAT ALL ABOUT??!! If having a baby isnt on the top of his priority list then what the hell am I going through all of this for? Sometimes I just feel like Im all alone in this struggle. I spend my days researching my problem and spend my nights telling him all about what I learned! I meanis that right? How do your ladies DHs help you through all of this? Do they all want to have a baby as bad as you do or are they just along for the ride? I just want to knock some sense into him! All I keep hearing about is how a lot of women on here wish they wouldve started trying sooner right? Especially if you know theres something wrong with you or DH and you need help right? I just dont want to be hating myself or my husband a few years from now for not trying hard enough when we have all of the tools we need to get started! I'm glad to see that I am not the only one struggling with trying to make people understand!

totally. My husband hopes I get pregnant. I made sure we were on the same page, which took some time. I have wanted to TTC for well over two years. And then we tried for a year. Well we werent avidly trying, but we werent on birth control. Then I found out the culprit - PCOS.

UGH! And, yea he says insensitive stuff and doesnt get it either. I do the suppository at bed time. He knows this. Last night he was trying to watch t.v. my knees went in the air to you know, do the suppository LOL and he is like, hey your knee is in the way. I AM like ARE U KIDDING ME? LOL. Yes, a smack upside the head is in order.

LMAO....too funny. I think they're mostly interested in the sex part of it anyways! LOLOLOL. Atleast my DH makes up for the wrongs most of the time. He sent me this email a minute ago:

as you had mentioned, we both have priorities and much of the time they match up - sometimes we each have things that are important to one and not the same for the other... Having a child is one that we definitely both share - please no that I truly mean this when I say it, as I could think of nothing more amazing and wonderful than having a child together
I love you more than words could ever describe and look forward to enjoying the rest of my life with you

ahh. its funny how they learn sometimes.

Yes, the sperm can stay in your system for that long. Especially if you have that egg white dc. I think it is still very possible for you!

ang, thats why i did iui. cant miss ovulation, its great. also with bd you can still see your obgyn and have her ck your folllicles. she can tell you when to be with your husband.
good luck