I had my FET today. I should be happy, right? Well, somethings just didn't seem right today. First of all, no one ever checked with us to see how many we wanted to transfer. When I talked to RE about it (Wednesday) I told him that we were trying to decide between 2 & 3. He said that he would have the lab call me first thing in the morning. No one called yesterday. So, I called the office and they said that they didn't need to know right then. I proceeded with my day and didn't think about it. Today when I arrived to pre-op the embryologist came up to DH and I and said that he thawed 3 embies. I never told him how many and neither did DH. I had 13 good embies and the embryologist said that he had to thaw 7 of them to get the 3 "ok" embryos. My mind was racing with thoughts at this time. Then when I asked where the pictures were that they took of the 3 that they were transferring and they said the printer was broke! There isn't another printer in this HUGE hospital?! It has only been two hours since my transfer and I am so confused. This is my first, so I don't know if this is considered normal. Are doctor's supposed to thaw what they want? Why didn't we have a say in this? Did two look "bad" so they decided to thaw another (even though I didn't give them permission)? Ultimatley we were going to transfer three, but that is not the point! Please give any advice!
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