
Infertility Support Group
In vitro fertilization is one of the most common and utilized ways of treating conception problems. This support group is dedicated to those beginning their journey with IVF and needing support. Join the community and share your experiences, advice, and story with people going through similar challenges starting a family.

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I need to write today so I don't sit here at work and cry my eyes out so I hope that's ok. I keep thinking those three words, "why not me?" Why is everyone else I know popping out babies left and right? What have I done that was so bad? Why do people who don't even want a baby popping them out? I'm coming to the realization that I won't be able to adopt ever. I'm fat, I've been on anti-depressants (who hasn't) and our combined income isn't enough to pass these new restrictions on places like China. Nothing seems to be working and there is more pressure than ever for it to work b/c it's my only chance. Am I being punished for something? I am a good person with a big heart. Am I just unlucky? Why can't I have what everyone else arounds me seems to have? Am I never going to have a family? A little girl or boy to take to Gramma's house for Christmas? I can't imagine my life without ever having a baby of my own. I wonder how many years we will continue to try. Does anyone else think this as well...why not me? Thank you for "listening."
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The real icing on the cake for me was to find out someone like Nicole Richie is pg after all the horrible stuff she has done to her body and her life. I just don't understand it and guess I never will. I will continue my journey and know that someday soon my dream will come true, it's all we can hold on to. If we don't have hope, we have nothing. It's nice to know I am not alone and that people understand what I am going through. This website has done wonders for me and my struggles.
I am in a line of work where I talk to social workers often and get to hear about the women with X number of kids, different dads, etc. Its so hard.
I wonder why me, and I have come to realize that we are not being punished. Life can seem really unfair, but I believe in my heart all of us will become mothers some day, either by adoption or fertility treatments.
Please don't despair about adoption. China is very strict, but other countries will enable you to adopt even if you don't make a lot of money and take anti-depressants.
Lots of love and prayers,
Court
I am sorry to hear about your day. I wish I had the answer. I'd be rich!!!!
Just know that we are here to listen.