What a day. We had one last appointment with our old RE before going to our new RE in Feb. Lots of good info about testing and other stuff. I think we are going to do a FET with our old DR and hope that we do not need to do another IVF. If we do another IVF I think we will try the new RE. This is the part that threw me for a loop. We have a bunch of FE's and I told the RE that we are thinking of holding onto them in case we needed to use them in a surrogate. (I have a step daughter from a previous relationship which my husband and I are very close with. Her Dad is long gone from all of our lives including hers. Her and I have been through a lot together since she was six years old. She is now 21 and has a baby of her own. She has offered to be a surrogate for us many times. So far we have declined knowing we would have that option in the future. She is really a good girl and has donated her eggs twice to help couples in need.) Anyhow our RE suggested that if and when the time comes that we choose to do this we should use fresh eggs for the transfer to her. Being that freshies have a better chance of implanting. OK so that makes sense. This was the part that made my husbands heart stop. Our RE suggested to make the most of all the freshies we implant eggs both into my stepdaughter and myself at the same time. OMG!! Can you imagine us both getting pregnant at the same time. My husband could not get the thought of going from one delivery room to the other as the father of both lol. This is a Jerry Springer show for sure. I was so shocked at the thought I haven't been able to stop thinking about it. My SD husband is in Iraq and her and the baby want to come and live with us for the last six months of his deployment. I just kept running the logistics of this whole thing through my head and it is making me crazy. You know after all of this it would be my luck we would both get pregnant. This house would get really small with two pregnant women and a baby. My poor husband. The funny thing is after he had a chance to think about it he was all for it. Yikes!! I am not sure what i think. I think we should try the FET then maybe one more IVF on our own and then maybe consider the Springer show. Surprised Wow life is crazy. Anyhow I can't wait for the FET. I am ready to get started again.
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