I have a cousin who has two beautiful little girls. They were at my house & her girls were getting into things & playing around. No problem, they're just doing what little kids do. My cousin is trying to make them behave & then she turned to me & said, "you are so lucky that you don't have to deal with any of this". She knows all about our trouble ttc. I hate it when people who are BLESSED with children take it for granted & don't appreciate it. She went on & on talking about how she wished she could still just get up & go whenever she wanted...blah,blah,blah. Did she think she was trying to make me feel better by pointing out all of the things that SHE thinks are positives about not being a mother? Or was she just trying to rub it in my face in a round about way? All I know is that I would love to have her "PROBLEM" & would carry that "BURDEN" with a smile on my face.
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