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Trying to get preg.

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Does anyone stress out about bills and getting preg. It is so hard to be stress free and try to think (+). I don't know. I know we will always have bills. I hope I'm not the only one that thinks this.
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I think it is natural to feel that way. I get really stressed with all sorts of things like not getting pregnant, or all the money this is costing me.
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I get stressed when I think about how we have financed our treatments. We will be paying on them for 5 years, baby or not:(
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you mean bills in general or bills that we have accrued through our trying to get pregnant process?

Personally I have tons of debt. I came into my marriage about 6 grand in the hole. My husband had at least 12. Then we bought a truck and a car and have 5 years of Christmas and much needed trips to the grocery--all on credit. So, yes I definetly worry about bills. But I dont see an end in sight. We consolidated which has helped but still it is difficult. After we pay our bills and go grocery shopping there is never much left. However, I wouldnt change it for the world and would be thrilled to have more debt it if meant I could have another baby :)
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Yes, bills in general. We have loans out there. But if I was preg. I have to think about baby things. I would do breast feeding and there is other things, but day care is so up there in price. I like to stay home but you can't do that today.
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Oh, girl I know what you mean. It's just trying to find a balance between the two!
I think you're totally normal for that!
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I think it is normal to worry about money as it is but then to throw the costs of IF treatments on top of that along with the sress of IF I don't think it is possible not to stress.
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I try not to worry, I know that God will provide and supply all our needs if we just trust him.
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