Infertility Support Group

In vitro fertilization is one of the most common and utilized ways of treating conception problems. This support group is dedicated to those beginning their journey with IVF and needing support. Join the community and share your experiences, advice, and story with people going through similar challenges starting a family.

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Trusted Blessing

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I've had a revelation this week. For so long I've wondered what I have done wrong to not deserve a child. Does God not trust that I could take care of a child and love a child and that's why I don't have one? Why is it that so many people around me look at each other and get pregnant? Then I started thinking about how God has promised that He will never give us anything that we can't deal with. I am His child and He knows better than I do what I can handle. He knew that infertility would be the hardest thing that I have ever been through. He trusted me enough to give me this trial. He knew that I would make it through it. He knows who can handle it and who can't. My determination is that those of us that God gives infertility to will receive tremendous blessing when we are through the storm because He trusts us more than the people who look at each other and get pregnant.

Put simply, we are all a trusted blessing to our Creator.
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Thank you for sharing that. I have also been thinking that lately. There is a reason why we are all going through this and some days it is extremly hard to understand that but thinking that God is putting us though this for a special reason and because he knows we are strong enough to handle it helps me get through the rough times.
Zayannee
Zayannee
Great post, I feel the same!
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deleted_user
Wow, you are so right! I have never stopped long enough to thank God for giving me this trial. We are strong and we can get through this with the help of our Lord.
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Last night, my DH and I had a talk about moving on with this next IVF cycle. Obviously we are praying that it works. But, we did talk about it not working, too. You have to do that, as least we do. Sometimes if you don't set your expectations too high, then you won't be so dissapointed (yeah, right). Anyway...the reason I am replying is that he turned to me and said "God has a plan for us and maybe we just need to wait to find out what it is."

And for the first time, honestly, I now believe that.
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THAT WAS AWESOME GIRL. YOU MADE ME FEEL SO MUCH BETTER TODAY . THANK YOU SO MUCH.
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