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Today is the day!

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As some of you know, I am throwing my BF a baby shower. Today is the day! I am so very excited, yet a little part of me still hurts some. I think I bought half the baby store and was up way too late wrapping. I am a bit tired and usually more emotional when I am.

I am sure I will cry for her and DH, happy tears. But mixed in there from time to time may be a tear or two for me and all of you and our struggles to get to where they are.

I pray someday soon someone is throwing us our baby shower! Wish me luck today ladies! :-)
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Good luck. You are a strong woman to even throw this shower. I wish you strength and happiness today. You will be in my thoughts.
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Good luck today, stay strong and think positive.
laraM
laraM
Good luck today. I am impressed that you have been able to do this. I am sure there are a lot of mixed emotions. I will be thinking of you.
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GL! What a great friend you are. I hope she enjoys it!
skelleher729
skelleher729
Good luck today...I am thinking of you. Just think, one day soon that will be you. 8-) Hang in there. You are a great friend to do this and I hope she appreciates it.
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You will have your baby shower one day and it will be one of the happiest moments of your life!!! :) You are a great friend.
honeyb11277
honeyb11277
You are a great friend!! Hope it goes well!!
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Good luck & hang in there. You are a very good person to do that for your BF!
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just keep doing the right things as you are and everything will work out for you--good luck, Mertle
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albgray
albgray
I just went through this with a friend of mine. It's tough, but it's hard not to be happy for someone who deserves it, right?

I hope it was bearable for you. You're a great friend!
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My Bestfriend just a had beautiful baby girl and I felt the same way. She is my Goddaughter and I love her so much, but a part of me is crying because I want one of my own so badly! You are brave and a good friend!
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Good luck hon. Keep your spirits up today.
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two months ago I was in the same boat. I threw a shower for my sister-in-law. I was so nervous...I felt like eyes were on me because of my situation. I knew I was a bit paranoid and that people were actually watching her. I enjoyed watching her open her gifts. You are a lot stronger than you think. I couldn't believe that I did it. I was so proud of myself. I know you can do it...even when you think you can't. Best of luck.
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Good Luck, you are a strong person to do that. Baby showers were always the hardest for me.
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You are a brave woman. My thoughts a with you and keep your faith.
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